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Chronic Anxiety in Physical Illness

January 22, 2023From the Archives
Chronic Anxiety and balancing self in relationships
From the Archives - Chronic Anxiety in Physical Illness Dr. Bowen spoke at a conference on cancer in 1978 about his thinking of how a disease like cancer could develop. It was quite different thinking at the time. He started by making the point that

Function UP in 2023

January 14, 2023Define self
Define your self directed goals
Function UP in 2023 It's that time of year when I think about my intentions for functioning up in the coming year. A systems perspective has me thinking about how I'm functioning in my family and workplace systems. The concept of functioning is an im

Defining Self – Always do this

December 16, 2022Define self
stone path in mountain
Defining a self - always do this. Defining one's self is a lot of work and a lifelong process. However, one can improve their functioning at any time. Here are some ideas, from a system's perspective, that can increase one's level of differentiation,

Value of Family History

November 15, 2022Uncategorized
Value of Family History
The value of family history There are multiple reasons for the value of understanding the facts of one's family history. It supports one's development of more objective thinking on family matters. The process of gathering family history facts expands

Family as Systems

October 27, 2022Uncategorized
3 Monkeys
Families act as a system for a reason. Our desire to be calm drives more behaviour than we realize. This is a significant factor in families acting as systems. This month’s previous post pointed out that emotions, like being anxious, are contagious

Emotional Contagion

October 15, 2022emotional system
family system
Emotional contagion is real Emotional contagion is a field of study that validates much of what Dr. Bowen conceptualized in the 1960s. Dr. Bowen, who read widely across scientific disciplines, believed that we inherited the basis for the human emotio

Immune System’s Defining of Self

September 24, 2022Define self
Immune System
The Immune System defines self Nature has a way of defining the physical self for all organisms via the immune system. Evolution built our immune system to recognize non-self from self. Accordingly, mechanisms like the immune system are the root of t

Personal Growth: Six Key Learnings

September 12, 2022Define self
Personal growth: Individual Effort in Social Systems Does an individual's anxiety level vary when embarking on a journey of personal and spiritual growth? How would the existing social system react to the change? Would the level of anxiety vary over