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Defining Self – Always do this

December 16, 2022Define self
stone path in mountain
Defining a self - always do this. Defining one's self is a lot of work and a lifelong process. However, one can improve their functioning at any time. Here are some ideas, from a system's perspective, that can increase one's level of differentiation,

Value of Family History

November 15, 2022Uncategorized
Value of Family History
The value of family history There are multiple reasons for the value of understanding the facts of one's family history. It supports one's development of more objective thinking on family matters. The process of gathering family history facts expands

Family as Systems

October 27, 2022Uncategorized
3 Monkeys
Families act as a system for a reason. Our desire to be calm drives more behaviour than we realize. This is a significant factor in families acting as systems. This month’s previous post pointed out that emotions, like being anxious, are contagious

Emotional Contagion

October 15, 2022emotional system
family system
Emotional contagion is real Emotional contagion is a field of study that validates much of what Dr. Bowen conceptualized in the 1960s. Dr. Bowen, who read widely across scientific disciplines, believed that we inherited the basis for the human emotio

Immune System’s Defining of Self

September 24, 2022Define self
Immune System
The Immune System defines self Nature has a way of defining the physical self for all organisms via the immune system. Evolution built our immune system to recognize non-self from self. Accordingly, mechanisms like the immune system are the root of t

Personal Growth: Six Key Learnings

September 12, 2022Define self
Personal growth: Individual Effort in Social Systems Does an individual's anxiety level vary when embarking on a journey of personal and spiritual growth? How would the existing social system react to the change? Would the level of anxiety vary over

Systems view of problems

August 22, 2022Define self
family system
Systems view of problems. A system view of a problem differs from how most people think of a problem. The common way of thinking stems from an individualistic cause-and-effect model. In our current culture, there is a quick-fix desire as well. Thus,

Elders and Interdependency

August 15, 2022Uncategorized
Interdependency and Elders
Elders and Interdependency To understand human nature, it's useful to think in terms of evolution. Why would a species need elders or have an interdependency with them? For example, what is the benefit to a species of having the females live a long t